@flowergirl Okay that is understandable. Im hoping the men you would break off would be due to his own will. There maybe men who lose their motivation to make money and take care of their own family due to mental illness like ptsd or heavy anxiety. But other than that I would understand.
it's not money. it's about responsibility and commitment. I can take care of myself and make money myself. A guy can be a millionaire and not spend the effort to raise his kids.
@flowergirl You are right. Same thing for females, her responsibility will be the same. I would think, the more busy you are with work, the less time you would have to care for your loved ones. The more rich you are the busier you are juggling your finance situations.
If they have a degree or skillset even if they are broke. I will date them. Most young men have student debts but in the long run, it will pay off.