@sailorneptune Would you atleast be friends? Or have no ties with him at all. For me, I wouldn't mind being friends with someone I am not attracted to. Because that person can maybe help you out one day, when you are down in the rut. Having troubles with your car, or anything. There were girls that say that they are attracted to me, but I wouldn't feel the same way. My problem was being to prideful and totally ignore that person. I never had a good heart in my earlier days. I just was a person that was quick to judge thinking all they want to do is get with me on a personal level. I never opened my mind and know that some people get lonely and bored that they just need some type of interaction. Just like giving them your attention will lighten their day. I am still big headed to the fact that I wouldn't want to give females that I am not attracted to the same attention they are giving me. I just feel that if I give them the wrong signal they might jump to conclusion that I like them. There is both side to my mind of what I should really do when I get attention from certain females.
There are things that money cannot buy. We are more prepared for marriage while men are not. Men do not like to open up or talk as much as women do.
I'm surprised at how many men out there that don't know these basic needs. We look for men that we can invest in and have a longtime relationship. Most young men aren't willing to invest longterm.
@ciccotelli Most young men has the mentality of having fun before its too late. They have that mentality of what is called YOLO.