My ex was very handsome, but personality was so vain. On top of that he was a player, liar, over suffocating, and was lazy so I left. We would argue because he would make me get rid of all my guy friends, and was constantly blowing up my phone. I needed space and he was over suffocating at time. So we argued constantly he now have 2 kids with 2 different baby mamas, and multiple failed relationships. So looks can only get you so far in a relationship. I feel that communication and the ability to hold a conversation is the most important. There is nothing in comparison to a relationship where you can talk to each other about everything. Also, honesty and loyalty is important. So trust is very important.