How can I attract females without looking like a creep or asshole?

@olive-juice

Dang, that is the part that I need to work on heavily. Because I am an awkward person at time. I am to quiet and too timid to make the first move. I mostly tend to blow girls off when they try to get to know me. Because I feel as though it is too soon to get to know each other. I get shy and tend to act like I am not in to them, but really I am. Most of the females see my negative vibe and see it as though I rejected them, but really I panicked and made a stupid move not to talk to them more. I have social anxiety and that ruins my many friendship and even guy/girl relationship. So you are right about getting the females to be comfortable, and that is what keeps me from finding someone. There is so many girls I could have been with, but they all moved on and found a husband/boyfriend. I thought of those girls were attracted to me by their vibes and the attention they gave me.

@charliesafehouse

We were always just friends that just happen to move in the same city. We just started to catch feelings for one another because we didn't know anyone in the city that we moved in. 

@charliesafehouse

There is your issue! You have to make the first move, some women are shy.  You are a fairly good looking guys so have some confidence and girls will come!

@sailorneptune

Thanks. I am weird guy, kind of. If the females are intimidated by me, I am intimidated as well. Its like we are the same magnetic polarity. You know how they say opposite attracts, I believe that is true. But thanks for your input and tip. I will try to break the barrier of being shy and be confident, just as a gentleman. I need to be signaled in to have a friendlier vibe or even more. But that is in the long run.

@melanie

Who made the first move? Was it you? Or your husband?