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Hong Kong Chinese guy arrested for rape in SF

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HAHHHAH.. this will be fun to watch

@geremy your not going to win this.. LOL 😆 

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Ass kissing to women like usual. It's our duty to explain the logic to women on how males think. You're not helping if your ass kissing. Women understanding men is the line between danger and positive experience. 

Women don't like sissies or men that they can run over. 

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I am not ass kissing. Women are wired differently from us that's all, We just have to accept the reality that they think differently from us. 

 

 

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Its hard for men to understand. I will give an example. I am at the gym, minding my own business, working out, and a guy come up to the cardio machine closest to me when there are 20 open ones, looks at me while I am running. This makes me extremely uncomfortable as he had tried to talk to me before, commenting on my looks, despite me telling him sorry, I have to leave, my husband is waiting for me outside. I would be afraid to be alone with that guy, or near him. Oh, and his response was qe can be friends 🙄

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can we be friends is not the same category as rape or sexual assault?

He's trying to flirt with you because your wedding ring isn't with you at the gym. He's not trying to rape you. It's your responsibility to let other men know that you are married. You need to be very clear. 

If you were single & he was a handsome man, you would be like '' OH MY GOD! I can't believe a hot guy like him was hitting on me, I can't wait to go back to the gym'' 

 

 

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can we be friends is not the same category as rape or sexual assault?

He's trying to flirt with you because your wedding ring isn't with you at the gym. He's not trying to rape you. It's your responsibility to let other men know that you are married. You need to be very clear. 

If you were single & he was a handsome man, you would be like '' OH MY GOD! I can't believe a hot guy like him was hitting on me, I can't wait to go back to the gym'' 

 

 

That is not the point.  The point is because I felt uncomfortable, and made it clear I wasn't interested,  he should had stopped, especially after I told him I have a husband. He should not said, " I just want to be friends" and then continue to make me feel uncomfortable every time he sees me at the gym. It was pretty bad, I would still walk the long way around the gym just to avoid him.  If that was at a work place, I could report him for sexual harassment. 

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" I just want to be friends" is a positive thing. I will translate what he said into female language for you

= I won't flirt with you anymore because you belong to someone, I will not cross that line or invade another man's territory. that you for laying down the rules that I completely understand. 

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NO means No! No exceptions!

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