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Do Filipinos do this?

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athena
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Or just Vietnamese. Bad habit to talk about someone in front of them. For instance a friend went to nail salon. They commented on her nails in Vietnamese not knowing she spoke the language.

the other day at the thrift store I picked up a gold sequin top. This Asian woman told me it was pretty. I didn’t know what she was could be Chinese or some southeast Asian, hard to tell. However, I determined probably correctly that she’s Vietnamese because later on, she looked at my full basket and mumbled in English “so many clothes. In a way that she was not talking to me but meant to jab at me.  So, what’s that to her? There no limit to how many you could put in a cart. They didn’t have dressing rooms so I was t taken time either. I don’t think even Chinese have this low class behavior. Maybe she was jealous I got the cute top. I put it back anyway because it wasn’t cute on me. 

The other day, an older Chinese woman was looking at something I was trying on and said “too big”. I was not offended by it because 1) telling someone the clothes are too big as opposed to too small is not offensive, and 2) I got the sense she was talking to me. So I don’t think I’m overly sensitive. 

 

 

but within my ear reach of course “ so many clothes”. 

 
Posted : 20/08/2023 12:14 am
Rick Cool
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Sounds like only a woman could answer this. First us guys, we usually are straight forward

 
Posted : 22/08/2023 1:27 am
ronnie avatar
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usually, we don't talk badly about anyone in front of their face. if we do talk about someone, that means the person iv very rude. 

 
Posted : 22/08/2023 7:08 pm
athena
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@rr that is a very bad habit of Vietnamese people. I don't know why.

 
Posted : 29/08/2023 12:17 am