Why are some people always single?

Posted by: @kay

Posted by: @athena

@kay how can you tell if someone loves you. What would make you feel special?

Usually, a guy goes out of his way to show affection to make a girl feel special.  

A man will claim the women as *his* with some sort of title. the man will let everyone that she is mine. going out of the way to show affection is not absolute because many players are so good with that. 

@kay....how can you tell if a guy loves you? He will let you be the best person you can possibly become. The guy with best interest in you won't be just be after your looks or your body. He'll give you enough freedom to let you do the things that you love and be with people who are already part of your life. He's not after perfection. A guy who loves you will make sure that you can stand on your own. You can defend yourself when he won't be around. That your world doesn't evolve around him. You will always have his best interest. He will defend you but he will also be the first person who will be honest enough to tell you off. You are an equal. Not a competitor nor a trophy. You can always be yourself around him made up or not. 

@kay I used to think when I was younger that if a woman is physically beautiful or smart that she wouldn't have any problem attracting a guys. That is partially true especially with the physical part. True that a woman who is born with natural assets have less to work for. I can't say how much of attracting a partner has to do with what you are able to cultivate. At least for women who are valued more for looks than a man, looks do play a large part. Being intelligent helps with any type of looks. I think even more important than book intelligence is emotional intelligence. Two women may have the same IQ but the one who is more emotionally intelligent no doubt will get a better partner. I would say the one with emotional intelligence can get a better partner even when the woman is less physically attractive. Ive seen countless instances to the point I can tell when I meet a beautiful woman who seems to have everything going on, why she's not in a relationship.